From Mindwise by Nicholas Epley. What he's saying is that if we want to understand each other, we should just ask and listen to the answers. Intuition is powerful, but when it comes to interpersonal relationships, being direct is easier and more accurate than making assumptions. I've been trying to implement this lesson in conversations with X, by sharing my feelings even when I find them confusing or don't think they're "justified".
This passage from Jack London's Call of the Wild is describing dog behavior, but I think it encapsulates the motivation behind most crimes, especially in disadvantaged areas. For instance, many drug-dealers in low-income neighborhoods are people who want to support their families financially, and see no other way to get ahead in life. When legitimate opportunities are withheld, desperate people turn away from the law and pursue illicit possibilities.
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